The most important thing to know about any kind of kink is that there are not set rules. Don’t let others define or set what is and isn’t possible in a kink relationship. Its personal, you and whomever you participate with decide what works and what doesn’t.
Look up switching. There are many individuals in relationships that take on the role of dominant and submissive at times. There is also such a thing in puppy play as an alpha pup - a pup that doms others in the scene.
The important thing to remember is that this is personal, this is your experiment and your opportunity to find what works for you. Don’t let convention and the “community” decide how this works. Its more than just a clique or norms.
I not a fan of the zombie apocalypse. Its been done too much and is just blah anymore.
I do enjoy the supernatural aspect or a man-made doomsday. But not a nuclear holocaust.
I tend to just really enjoy the remains of human civilization. I don’t really care much how we get there. :p